This is just one page of MY BOOK that I have dealt with since my children have been in school.
I had an issue that needs to be resolved pertaining to EVERY STUDENT that attends BIG HEART ISD(not just to those who aren't related to those educators in the District.) when I clicked on the BIG HEART ISD web page, the first thing I seen said "Building the Future One Student at a Time." There is even a link that says "BIG HEART ISD No Bully Zone." When I clicked on that link, it led me to the link that said "Bullying, Sexual Harassment, Dating Violence and Child Abuse."
Now that this is out of the way, I was informed by my High School aged child that they were trying to help a young man that attends Junior High School. They know this young person because they were there for him when Ethan was being bullied last year. (My child had spoken to the kids mom and it was agreed that he could speak to my child about this matter. My child had went to the junior high and spoke to the junior high principal about the incident and was told that he was right by what he done.) My son doesn't feel like he can speak to anyone up there about matters because he's always told he was wrong for what he did.
Young man looked sad one day on the bus so my child tried to see if they could cheer him up. The young man said that there was a girl that was BULLYING him via text and he really wished she would stop. (My child had been bullied up until their FRESHMAN year of high school so they know how it feels to hear it from someone. But for your cellphone to be constantly be going off with MEAN TEXTS from someone that doesn't like you can be VERY HURTFUL.) My child asked the young man did he want them to help him and if so could he see his cellphone.My child told me that they were called into the Assistant Principals office and spoke to about this matter. My child was basically told that they needed to mind their own business and shouldn't have done anything at all. They were also told that they needed to hang out with kids in their grade not with Junior High kids. ( The younger set feel comfortable talking with my child and feel like they are being heard. If my child sees some one that is said or not happy looking, they will do almost anything to make them feel better.)
Going by my child, they seen the young girl and her grandmother (who is a teacher for BISD walking at the school. They felt like they owed an apology for using cuss words when they were texting the young girl. My child was told by the teacher "That's just the way she is.)
First of all my problem is that a YOUNG PERSON was getting BULLIED and ANOTHER STUDENT tried to HELP and was told that they weren't supposed to do that?
Why is it OK for that YOUNG GIRL to use her CELLPHONE and BULLY this YOUNG MAN? but my child couldn't ask her to stop?
If that young girls' RELATIVE had not worked for THE BIG HEART ISD, would anything have ever been said to MY CHILD?
Why was something said to my child to begin with?
Since when did the ISD have the right to tell my child who they could help or be friend with?
This is not ALL ABOUT MY CHILD, it's about ANY CHILD that gets BULLIED at BIG HEART ISD. Almost everyone there is RELATED in some fashion so unless you are kin to them, you usually are not going to get in trouble as much. Yet, let some children not be related to anyone up there and they will get bullied and harrased more often. ( Not every child is that way but there have been quite a few instances of BISD educator's children that were students bullying other children. )
WHAT IS GOING TO BE DONE TO PROTECT EVERY STUDENT AT BISD NOT JUST THE ONES THAT ARE PREFERRED?? WHAT IS GOING TO BE DONE WITH ALL THE BULLYING VIA TEXTS THAT SEEMS TO BE RUNNING RAMPANT?
Words can comfort and words can maim,
Words can be happy and words can cause pain,
Words can calm and words can hurt,
Words can warm and words can be curt,
Words can heal and words can delegate,
Words can spread love and words can spread hate,Words can warm and words can be cold,
Words can be young and words can get old,
Words can be mean and words can be...
my EARTHLY CHILDREN are my world and when one is upset, I try to see what's the matter. My ELDEST is a HANDSOME young MAN that I believe with all of my heart has a GREAT FUTURE ahead of him . MY BABY, is the LIGHT of MY LIFE and has a HEART of GOLD!!! Plus(yes, I am prejudiced)SHE IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL YOUNG PERSON OUT THERE INSIDE & OUT BY ANY MEANS. They both are extentions of ME so therefor, I know how their hearts can be hurt by others and how they can hold in how they feel. GOD PLEASE PROTECT THEM bc I cannot always be there all the time even though you gave them to me to do this. I LOVE YOU BOTH WITH ALL OF MY BEING and I AM ALWAYS, ALWAYS HERE FOR BOTH OF YOU!!! (never doubt that)
Dear My Darling Daughter, ? ? YOU are my HEART and I LOVE YOU with all of my being. No matter what ANYONE says to or about YOU, never doubt that YOU are SPECIAL. YOU are a NATURAL BEAUTY that doesn't need to be fake or try to be someone/something that you aren't. Don't change bc others think you should. I know YOU have a HEART of GOLD bc GOD gave you to ME and I am YOUR MOTHER. (even though y...
ou might not want me to write this and you may think I am being sentimental, I am.) YOU ARE LOVING & KIND, YOUNG LADIES that I know that GOD & YOUR PARENTS are PROUD to call their own, like I AM. When I look at you, I see myself and THANK GOD that YOU are MINE!!! BE PROUD TO BE WHO YOU ARE bc GOD MADE YOU THAT WAY!!! PS DAD LOVES YOU JUST AS MUCH AS ME (if not more) :) ? ? love always, your mom
if you are wanting to take a better look.......Here's a GLIMPSE into my HANDY DANDY BUTTERFLY NOTEBOOK............
The LORD is MY FAMILIES ARMOR, and OUR HERO.
WE carry HIS LOVE, GRACE and SHIELD and HIS MERCY, WE DO SHOW.
OUR SHEILD HE designed to cover OUR HEARTS.
To let US know thou HE's not here WE are NEVER APART.
Across the SHIELD, to cover our bossoms and our chests,
OUR Is MOTO: "LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST".
Though many didn't have this shield to PROTECT them, they ended up broken-hearted.
Across OUR HEART is OUR very own SIGN
The ZODIAC symbol ARIES-THE RAM, I gladly call MINE.The LIGHT to GUIDE OUR WAY and the APPLE FOOD to EAT.
A LOVING HEART is along the right hand side
For WE are to LOVE INTENSELY and not hide
Beneath that is a symbol of FAITH that CANNOT be LOST
For GOD GRANTED MY FAMILY the GRACE to wear HIS CROSS
THE LORD IS OUR FATHER, OUR ARMOR AND OUR HERO.
WE GRATEFULLY WEAR HIS LOVE, GRACE AND SHIELD WHEREVER WE MAY GO.
My Story- Rachel
by Take a stand lend a handღ Let's stop bullying together on Thursday, November 22, 2012 at 9:00pm ·
I've been through alot, and I'm only 12 years old. I always try my best to be perfect but it just doesn't seem to work. All I would do is say Hi to people and that's were it would all go wrong. I try my best to fit in, but it never works. I've gotten cyper bullied so many times, by these girls in a grade above me. They would always call me names, I felt scared and worthless.I would cry myself to sleep everynight. I coulden't stop thinking about the pain. Many people started making fun of me then, I had a few close friends, but that was it. I was so angry of people making fun of me, so I decided to be mean to this girl. You woulden't belive how I felt about myself, I felt so guilty. I just got mad about people doing it to me so I did it to her. And she threated to call the cop's. So I stopped bullying every since that day. Time went on and the bullying still counited. I told my parent's about it, and it seemed to all get better. And then it all started again, more people joined the bullying. I just sticked with my friend's and stayed strong. I wanted it all to stop and I just wanted to hide from everyone. My anger grew, and I got so mad. I started seeing a counsler at this point. It really helped me. Then the girls that bullied me, always would make these fake accounts and deicde to bully me through the accounts. But many of my friends were their to stick up for me. I was glad I had my friend's and family, they mean the world to me.
My Story. By: Sydney
I have not been bullied. But i have been through so much! My parents spliting up, to not see my only person whos keeping me alive. Its time to come clean to the world. I have a sister who is abussed by someone in my family. My brother is getting hurt by my step brothers. Only reason why im not in this is because im the one who gets into no troble, the "good girl." They cant believe a sweet person like me would want to/ try to kill themselfs. Or even cut them selfs. So lets start from the begging, i had to leave everything i loved. Going to a new school, seeing cops, cps (Child protective services) every other day. I knew them all! I was okay till i was in 6th grade. When he started dating someone. I hated her so much! But he married her. Thats when i thought about killing myself, i have tried 2 times, at most! Every day theres screaming at me, my family, on how we need to act better. When her sons are perfect! No the 8 year old bites you. And my brother still has marks on him since 3 weeks ago! Hes not perfect. Then thats when cps, came into the picture agian! They came to school, i was about crying! Barely holding back the tears. But when i get home i cry myself to sleep thinking about this! I need it all over with! I have to get out of the house soon, live somewhere else! I just need help. It hurts to think i have tryed to kill myself and cut myself. But its true! Well thats all.... i think! Lol! Stay strong!
~Syd
My story-Emily
It started when I was elementary school.3rd grade I believe it was.I have a hearing disability and I wear hearing aids in both ears.My next door neighbor who we had known eachother ever since I moved there when I was little,we were friends.Well,when she figured out I had hearing aids,and that I was different she started bullying me.I'm the type of person who would just do whatever she told me to do,not sure why but I did most of the time.She would tell me to come over to the fence because she had to tell me a secret and pull my hair.I had told her something one time and she didn't hear me and I wouldn't tell her again so she bit me on the cheeck.I was very close to needing stiches.She hit me with a hockey stick in the side of the head too.One winter,she sat ontop of my head in the snow me facedown,and then when my brothers told her to get off of me she did a sumersault overtop of me I put up with that for quite a few years when I was younger.That was just the beginning.It followed me to school,we were in the same grade together same school.It was horrible.She would bully me constantly during recese.She turned all my friends against me and made them not like me.I was lonley and I felt awhful.Finally I had no friends and I felt so alone.I hated going to school,and that.I started hating myself for being different.My mom knew about all the stuff that had happended like the pulling of hair,when she bit me that stuff.I got help and ended up telling my mom.Luckily it stopped,and that but she did alot of harmful stuff to me,and I won't forget it.It has only made me stronger.I'm not posting this because I want people to feel bad for me either.Bullying is wrong and I want to help stop it.I don't want people to have to feel how I felt and go through what I did.I'm always here for anybody if you need me.I've been through it.Even if it's not about bulling and that you can talk to me about anything.Bullying isn't right and no one should have to go through it,sadly alot of people do and we have all been bullied or bullied befor.If you need someone to talk to though I'm always here♥.
~Emily
My Story- Rachel
by Take a stand lend a handღ Let's stop bullying together on Thursday, November 22, 2012 at 9:00pm ·
I've been through alot, and I'm only 12 years old. I always try my best to be perfect but it just doesn't seem to work. All I would do is say Hi to people and that's were it would all go wrong. I try my best to fit in, but it never works. I've gotten cyper bullied so many times, by these girls in a grade above me. They would always call me names, I felt scared and worthless.I would cry myself to sleep everynight. I coulden't stop thinking about the pain. Many people started making fun of me then, I had a few close friends, but that was it. I was so angry of people making fun of me, so I decided to be mean to this girl. You woulden't belive how I felt about myself, I felt so guilty. I just got mad about people doing it to me so I did it to her. And she threated to call the cop's. So I stopped bullying every since that day. Time went on and the bullying still counited. I told my parent's about it, and it seemed to all get better. And then it all started again, more people joined the bullying. I just sticked with my friend's and stayed strong. I wanted it all to stop and I just wanted to hide from everyone. My anger grew, and I got so mad. I started seeing a counsler at this point. It really helped me. Then the girls that bullied me, always would make these fake accounts and deicde to bully me through the accounts. But many of my friends were their to stick up for me. I was glad I had my friend's and family, they mean the world to me.
My Story. By: Sydney
I have not been bullied. But i have been through so much! My parents spliting up, to not see my only person whos keeping me alive. Its time to come clean to the world. I have a sister who is abussed by someone in my family. My brother is getting hurt by my step brothers. Only reason why im not in this is because im the one who gets into no troble, the "good girl." They cant believe a sweet person like me would want to/ try to kill themselfs. Or even cut them selfs. So lets start from the begging, i had to leave everything i loved. Going to a new school, seeing cops, cps (Child protective services) every other day. I knew them all! I was okay till i was in 6th grade. When he started dating someone. I hated her so much! But he married her. Thats when i thought about killing myself, i have tried 2 times, at most! Every day theres screaming at me, my family, on how we need to act better. When her sons are perfect! No the 8 year old bites you. And my brother still has marks on him since 3 weeks ago! Hes not perfect. Then thats when cps, came into the picture agian! They came to school, i was about crying! Barely holding back the tears. But when i get home i cry myself to sleep thinking about this! I need it all over with! I have to get out of the house soon, live somewhere else! I just need help. It hurts to think i have tryed to kill myself and cut myself. But its true! Well thats all.... i think! Lol! Stay strong!
~Syd
My story-Emily
It started when I was elementary school.3rd grade I believe it was.I have a hearing disability and I wear hearing aids in both ears.My next door neighbor who we had known eachother ever since I moved there when I was little,we were friends.Well,when she figured out I had hearing aids,and that I was different she started bullying me.I'm the type of person who would just do whatever she told me to do,not sure why but I did most of the time.She would tell me to come over to the fence because she had to tell me a secret and pull my hair.I had told her something one time and she didn't hear me and I wouldn't tell her again so she bit me on the cheeck.I was very close to needing stiches.She hit me with a hockey stick in the side of the head too.One winter,she sat ontop of my head in the snow me facedown,and then when my brothers told her to get off of me she did a sumersault overtop of me I put up with that for quite a few years when I was younger.That was just the beginning.It followed me to school,we were in the same grade together same school.It was horrible.She would bully me constantly during recese.She turned all my friends against me and made them not like me.I was lonley and I felt awhful.Finally I had no friends and I felt so alone.I hated going to school,and that.I started hating myself for being different.My mom knew about all the stuff that had happended like the pulling of hair,when she bit me that stuff.I got help and ended up telling my mom.Luckily it stopped,and that but she did alot of harmful stuff to me,and I won't forget it.It has only made me stronger.I'm not posting this because I want people to feel bad for me either.Bullying is wrong and I want to help stop it.I don't want people to have to feel how I felt and go through what I did.I'm always here for anybody if you need me.I've been through it.Even if it's not about bulling and that you can talk to me about anything.Bullying isn't right and no one should have to go through it,sadly alot of people do and we have all been bullied or bullied befor.If you need someone to talk to though I'm always here♥.
~Emily
My Story- Rachel
by Take a stand lend a handღ Let's stop bullying together on Thursday, November 22, 2012 at 9:00pm ·
I've been through alot, and I'm only 12 years old. I always try my best to be perfect but it just doesn't seem to work. All I would do is say Hi to people and that's were it would all go wrong. I try my best to fit in, but it never works. I've gotten cyper bullied so many times, by these girls in a grade above me. They would always call me names, I felt scared and worthless.I would cry myself to sleep everynight. I coulden't stop thinking about the pain. Many people started making fun of me then, I had a few close friends, but that was it. I was so angry of people making fun of me, so I decided to be mean to this girl. You woulden't belive how I felt about myself, I felt so guilty. I just got mad about people doing it to me so I did it to her. And she threated to call the cop's. So I stopped bullying every since that day. Time went on and the bullying still counited. I told my parent's about it, and it seemed to all get better. And then it all started again, more people joined the bullying. I just sticked with my friend's and stayed strong. I wanted it all to stop and I just wanted to hide from everyone. My anger grew, and I got so mad. I started seeing a counsler at this point. It really helped me. Then the girls that bullied me, always would make these fake accounts and deicde to bully me through the accounts. But many of my friends were their to stick up for me. I was glad I had my friend's and family, they mean the world to me.
My Story. By: Sydney
I have not been bullied. But i have been through so much! My parents spliting up, to not see my only person whos keeping me alive. Its time to come clean to the world. I have a sister who is abussed by someone in my family. My brother is getting hurt by my step brothers. Only reason why im not in this is because im the one who gets into no troble, the "good girl." They cant believe a sweet person like me would want to/ try to kill themselfs. Or even cut them selfs. So lets start from the begging, i had to leave everything i loved. Going to a new school, seeing cops, cps (Child protective services) every other day. I knew them all! I was okay till i was in 6th grade. When he started dating someone. I hated her so much! But he married her. Thats when i thought about killing myself, i have tried 2 times, at most! Every day theres screaming at me, my family, on how we need to act better. When her sons are perfect! No the 8 year old bites you. And my brother still has marks on him since 3 weeks ago! Hes not perfect. Then thats when cps, came into the picture agian! They came to school, i was about crying! Barely holding back the tears. But when i get home i cry myself to sleep thinking about this! I need it all over with! I have to get out of the house soon, live somewhere else! I just need help. It hurts to think i have tryed to kill myself and cut myself. But its true! Well thats all.... i think! Lol! Stay strong!
~Syd
~Syd
My story-Emily
It started when I was elementary school.3rd grade I believe it was.I have a hearing disability and I wear hearing aids in both ears.My next door neighbor who we had known eachother ever since I moved there when I was little,we were friends.Well,when she figured out I had hearing aids,and that I was different she started bullying me.I'm the type of person who would just do whatever she told me to do,not sure why but I did most of the time.She would tell me to come over to the fence because she had to tell me a secret and pull my hair.I had told her something one time and she didn't hear me and I wouldn't tell her again so she bit me on the cheeck.I was very close to needing stiches.She hit me with a hockey stick in the side of the head too.One winter,she sat ontop of my head in the snow me facedown,and then when my brothers told her to get off of me she did a sumersault overtop of me I put up with that for quite a few years when I was younger.That was just the beginning.It followed me to school,we were in the same grade together same school.It was horrible.She would bully me constantly during recese.She turned all my friends against me and made them not like me.I was lonley and I felt awhful.Finally I had no friends and I felt so alone.I hated going to school,and that.I started hating myself for being different.My mom knew about all the stuff that had happended like the pulling of hair,when she bit me that stuff.I got help and ended up telling my mom.Luckily it stopped,and that but she did alot of harmful stuff to me,and I won't forget it.It has only made me stronger.I'm not posting this because I want people to feel bad for me either.Bullying is wrong and I want to help stop it.I don't want people to have to feel how I felt and go through what I did.I'm always here for anybody if you need me.I've been through it.Even if it's not about bulling and that you can talk to me about anything.Bullying isn't right and no one should have to go through it,sadly alot of people do and we have all been bullied or bullied befor.If you need someone to talk to though I'm always here♥.
~Emily
~Emily
My Daughter made her SHILED of LOVE but she's a Taurus.........Could you make your own SHIELD and SHARE it with ME? Design it however you wanted and then SHARE it with THE WORLD. Then when we PRAY, WE know that OUR SHIELDS will be FORTIFIED by GOD's LOVE, FRIENDSHIP, and
OUR VERY OWN GUARDIAN ANGELS!!!!
I will send up a PRAYER just for YOU.
GOD is the only one who can SAVE US. Through OUR BROTHER, JESUS, WE can be REDEEMED.
GOD has a PLAN for EVERYONE so let US all B4 2 L8 Stop H8.
We are supposed to unselfishly HELP those who are need.
I DO this EVERY time I go to GOD and PRAY.
PRAYING FOR ALL!
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